Your immediate reaction may be to jump at the idea, or to shun it. Both reactions have merit. It depends on you, what you want to accomplish, and what stage your relationship is at.
So first of all, for you to catch a cheating spouse, you have to stop doubting yourself. If you feel/think/believe there’s something suspicious going on, then there usually is. So stop giving yourself a hard time for even thinking that your spouse is cheating on you.
When and how you tell your children is different for everyone. There are a lot of good books out that tell you how to handle this, and what kind of questions to be ready for with answers. Telling them together can have a positive affect on them, but make sure that you and your spouse work out the details of this pending conversation first.
Gribble had confessed to Jones’ slaying and two others. He was indicted but not tried for the murder of Donna Weis, 23, whose remains were found in Galveston County 18 months after she disappeared in June 1986. Authorities never were able to confirm his claim of a third slaying. At his trial, however, prosecutors presented to the jury three women who testified he raped them.
For example, if you have a spouse who is of the mentality of needing to win at everything, and is very controlling, you must immediately be on guard. You will need to become your own private investigator, snooping into things that you may normally not do. It is amazing what “evidence” you may find that will help you. You will normally not think to do this. What is surprising is how quickly the guilt you feel doing this disappears when you find something you did not know about.
It is not something I condone by any means, but the general feeling is that this film would be best enjoyed under the influence. Stone sober, it feels like a bit of a letdown by the end.
Throw a party at your place and invite all your friends, especially the one you suspect your partner is cheating you with. Watch their behavior closely. Any attempt your partner makes to pair up with him/her or coincided disappearances on the part of your partner and that person should tell you things.
There are many little ways a cheater will give him/herself away. Be quick to notice any little change in behavior and temperament that will indicate to you that your mate is lying. The cheater will not be able to cover his/her tracks every time!